Your friend is an idiot. Do not let him touch your car. He'll **** it up.
What exactly are you trying to wire up? A powered sub? A sub and amp? They make more than one sub.
Either or....as mentioned your friend sounds like he shouldn't be attempting this simple job. Others on the forum would be more up to date than myself with amps and crap but the last time I checked you can use any 12volt power for the remote wire to trigger the amp/powered sub to turn on.
For an amp you need 12v from battery(fused), a ground wire(chassis or body ground) and a remote wire which is just another power wire, there should be a wire you could find at the back of your radio that has power only when the key is on, find it and use it. Or....wire it however you want, run a fused toggle switch to control the amp if you want.
Maybe google how to google.
As for the amp signal input, depends on the amp. I've had some that you could just tap into the speaker wires and run them direct to the amp without the need for rca wires. I've used adapters that you run the existing speaker wires into a converter box that has rca outputs that you run a cable to the amp. Some amps don't need a remote wire and turn on when they sense an input from the rca or speaker inputs.
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