@ dustyb
What you describe is exactly what happens with
any manual if the gears are
not switched correctly!
When changing gear, you hold the gearstick with thumb and two fingers. You start moving the lever slowly towards where the next gear is with ever so little pressure, and then wait! Yes wait, for a second or so until the gear plops in by itself. Don't let the shape of the knob fool you into applying force.
Should you use
any force at all, the synchro rings will suffer wear, and gears will become more and more difficult to engage time after time!
If you yank the gears race car style, the synchro rings will be worn out in no time.
What can you do now after the synchro rings have become worn?
1.) Put thinner fully-synthetic gearbox oil in. You have Redline or Rowe brand GL4 75W or 75W/80. Thats perfect.
2.) Learn how to change gears properly!
Doing both points above, you might get by without further repairs. It will certainly help some, but If that fails to help enough, either:
Replace the transmission ($$$!!!)
- or -
Replace the synchro rings ($$)
No matter what you do from there on, let the gears simply plop in by themselves, and most important, don't apply
any force on the lever!
Just in case, you could also check the clutch. See: